Does Til Death Do Us Part Exist?

So come on now I know we've all done it. Searching through myspace friends and oops, "stumbling" upon an ex boyfriend. Then you get that gut wrenching wanna vomit feeling when you look at his comments and see the new girlfriend posts of "I love you" and "Last night was great!". Even if it's a few months after the fact I still don't like to share.
I came across my ex husbands myspace, this time truly by accident he was a friend of a friend and of course his pic was next to mine in her friends list. And his pic was of him and some girl. It did feel weird, but it wasn't the "I'm gonna puke" feeling I've gotten with others... I guess that means its truly a good thing we're divorcing, I know he's not right for me and I'm not right for him, the sad thing is I knew that before I even started dating him, he's the only guy I've ever dated that when he told me he loved me I couldn't say it back. I did, of course, I didn't say anything for a few minutes and then told him, played it off as I was speechless, and then a short month later when he asked me to marry him I said yes. I was so afraid to be alone forever ya know? But still, even though I know it's not there, I hate the fact we're getting a divorce. Rather, I hate the fact that we didn't TRY. I wanted to go to counseling, he wanted out. And I can't say I blame him, but what happened to our vows? through sickness and in health, til death do us part? He won't even talk to me now, although he says he's over it. Maybe if he'd talk to me about it and I felt like he was really over it I would be ok with this. But then again, he's just not right for me. He was handsome, I'll give him that much. But that's where it ended. He expected me to change who I was and got really possessive after we got married. I'm either too young for that or I need a man who can give me some room knowing I'll always come back if he does. And Jono simply isn't that man...